If you are a mom and you're like me -- never been away from your child(ren), and an opportunity presents itself, then you are feeling pretty guilty for wanting to take it. You're also feeling a bit empty inside. I know this feeling. When my S/O's friends decided that we should take a trip out of town for a night, I couldn't help but be excited, but as as a momma who is still breastfeeding, I felt a little sad knowing that I wouldn't be with her to help her get through the night.
Every now and then I get mommy guilt. I get it on date night, getting my nails manicured, or even going on a starbuck's run (which is less than two minutes from our home). Trying to assure myself that it is okay to take a moment (or even a day) to relax without my daughter is difficult.
My only advice to others is to take small steps. Allow yourself an hour or two, then eventually a day. It will get easier, I assume. So this weekend, when my S/O and I take a trip to Texas, I will be thinking of our daughter the whole time, but I will just keep reminding myself that she is fine and that this trip is much needed. I suggest the same for the parents who are just like me and can't stand the thought of being away from your little ones, but know deep down that you need that time.
Please, give yourself a break.
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